Posts in June 2018

Second-hand baby

You guys, it’s happening. With only 10 weeks left to go, reality is starting to set in a little more each day. I’m beginning to get annoying on social media with all the baby-related posts. But seriously, it’s my life right now and nearly every other thought.

People ask me/us if “we’re ready,” and I usually state that yes, we’re ready for Maisie in that most house-and-care things in our control are in order, but that I’m grateful for (up to) 2.5 months to finish up everything at work before maternity leave. Golly, that could be a post in itself – and knowing me, probably will be.

Am I mentally ready for the family change? Most days, yes. I’m not nearly as panicky as I was when pregnant with Wesley. A friend at the gym said I appear very “grounded,” which was probably one of the most surprising compliments I’ve received. I feel good and as normal as can be, too. Other compliments have been along the lines of “you’re so small!” “you’re glowing!” (Today, however, I feel extremely pregnant and uncomfortable and not so small or glowing.)

  
Paul D’Andrea took a few funny maternity photos while helping me update our staff headshots. I love the one of me and my coworker, Jenni, with the goofy heart-on-belly look! (We think it looks like I have 4 alien arms.)

Then there are times when I wake at 4:30 a.m. and can’t get back to sleep because I get anxious about raising another child – What if she is a difficult, colicky baby? Will she be stubborn and dramatic?? How are we going to pay for a wedding??? – or because of a serious charlie horse or restless, jumpy legs and feet (bananas help, fyi).

I don’t, however, worry about the baby stuff we’re accumulating. Nearly all of our friends have complete families and are ready to give things away. We have inherited a nursery full of gently used or unused items, and anything else has been purchased at consignment stores or garage sales.

She truly is a second child for all the second-hand items we’re using.

THINGS BORROWED/GIVEN:
Car seat (don’t worry, I know for a fact that it’s not expired OR been in an accident)
Bouncy seat
Bumbo
Rock n Play (I never had one with Wesley; I hear they’re miracle-workers for naps!)
Clothes (SO MANY CLOTHES)
Bassinet
Cloth diapers
Swing
Swaddles and sleep sacks

THINGS PURCHASED FOR DIRT CHEAP:
Crib – $30 (nearly new Craigslist find!)
Stroller – $5
Bathtub – $3
Playmat – $8
Side-by-side sleeper – $12
Levana video monitor – $50
Medela Breast Pump x 2 – $25 (plus I got a third from insurance, haha)
Snoogle support pillow – $15
Cloth diapers – $5-6 (some brand new at this price!)
Skip Hop diaper bag – $10

SPLURGES:
Maxi Cosi umbrella stroller – $125 (I got a killer deal on this “loaded” compact stroller when Babies R Us went out of business)
Ergobaby Omni 360 – $115 (I didn’t have a good carrier with Wes, so I didn’t wear him much. I’m excited about this “sworn-by moms” splurge, also new but discounted price!)
IKEA highchair – $23 (Steven & Wes picked this out while on a trip to our city’s new IKEA store)
Milliard crib mattress – $45 (Steven’s Amazon find)

See? I can’t believe how gear-ready we are at this point. We have had wall decor hung and furniture from around the house reassigned to the nursery and in place for months. I’d like to get a few house projects done before she arrives, and ideally we’d trade in one of our cars for a slightly bigger one, but these aren’t necessary for her arrival.

For all the lack of spending on this child, she really has had a lot of hands-on attention. I found out that AMA stands for advanced maternal age, so there’s that. Thankfully the tests and scans have all been positive, and she and I both seem to be in good health. There are dog ears in our charts about a possible hole between her heart ventricles (cardiologist isn’t concerned) and my platelet count (OB isn’t concerned), but she’s of average size and weight and growing well.

Last week’s 30-week ultrasound was entertainingly uneventful. After taking measurements, our ultrasound tech tried for several minutes to get a good 3D view of her face. We must have woken her up because she did not want to be messed with, and it was impossible to snap a pic without her hands in her face. Regardless, we got to see her protest in response – punching her fists, opening her eyes, and even drinking amniotic fluid. Amazing.

The ultrasound tech looked closely at Steven’s face, then mine, and back and forth with Maisie’s obstructed view. “Yeah, she definitely looks like her father.” I sure hope she’s right!

Posted: June 11th, 2018
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